scrambled steps

Cuz i feel so lazy typing all of these ,, just bare with me.. :))

while i was having a deep conversation with my brokenhearted friend, i had the appetite to jot some sh*t out of my Gift from God cellphone.. :)

PS:sorry for the wrong spellings and missing words.. haaha.. just in a hurry to finish.

one foot forward!!!

"Stop holding on to what hurts and make room for what feels good."

In our lives we are faced with many circumstances including instances of heartbreak that we may at one point have had control over, but eventually will not.

When we are done grieving we have to come to terms with what hurt us so much, forgive if it is needed, and be able to let go. Once we are truly able to let go of the things that have caused us so much pain, only then are we truly able to experience life for what it really is and what it really should be. When we release the pain from our lives, we allow room for the things that life can bring in an effort to make us feel good.

So stop holding on to what hurts, let go of the negativity, let go of the disappointment, let go of the regret, and be all that you can be by making room for happiness, success and fulfilment.

the search for my "perfect not"

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”

I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.